NEED WORDS OF ADVICE

lately things have been going crazy between me and my husband he works crazy hours because he's a cars sales men o really don't mine I have gotten use to it over time not seeing him and stuff the thing is at 1st sex was amazing don't get me wrong it still is but before I would get so turned on and wet just by him looking at him ... now I don't even get wet he can foreplay me for 30 mine and eat me out and nothing ....we usually use lube after I can't get wet I guess I have so much in my mind when we do it bc even when we do it it's hard for me to focus on us I know he had alot on his mind too since sometimes he doesn't even get full hard anymore ... idk I'm really hoping this is really just a faze ....

then I feel really bad because since he works so much and on my days off i masturbate and I get wet and i usually make myself orgasm sometimes he comes home and wants to have sex but by that point I can't get wet anymore and sometimes I don't masturbate so I can be ready for him .. but I still don't get wet.