Am I wrong???

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Okay so I'm a bigger girl, im 5 foot tall and weigh 196lbs. I found out my boyfriend has been watching skinny petite red heads on porn and it made me feel like I'm not pretty enough and made me wonder how he thinks I'm attractive. It really hurt my feelings and he doesn't understand it, am I wrong for feeling unattractive by him because of the porn he chooses to watch?

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My bf doesn't have Channing Tatum's six-pack but that doesn't mean I don't find him attractive. It sounds like you're insecure about your weight but remember he's with you for a reason!

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If the porn is bothering you then you should speak up about it. If he loves you then he will stop. Porn can wreak havoc in relationships.

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Men have a tendency to watch whatever the opposite of their current partner. So I wouldn't worry about. Besides, he's with you, not them.

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My husband probably watches like really hot chicks with perfect bodies.  I think I’d feel insecure if i knew....but i purposefully avoid that info.  Self preservation mode

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Nobody looks like the women their boyfriends watch in porn.
Only porn stars look like that.  (Ok- Porn stars and maybe 1 in 100 regular women.). Those women are not normal. 
I don’t think your bfs porn choice is the real cause of your insecurity.
I think the cause of your insecurity is the ridiculous fat-phobic culture that’s been piped into your brain since you were about eleven.  
Just a hunch.

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miss Victoria is right.

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