Found his photo vault.
My bf has an app called “Calculator+” on his phone that I just found and I knew that it was one of those keepsafe apps for hidden pictures.. I guessed the password and there’s 3 folders entirely of nudes from all his ex girlfriends on there. I asked him to delete the app and he wouldn’t. Idk what to think. I just had our son 6 weeks ago and am having self image issues and I know that my body doesn’t look the same as it used to. The fact that he won‘t get rid of all those pics of his ex’s bodies that look better than mine does now really makes me upset and mad. He knows I’ve been having self image issues. What should I do? Idk why he needs all those pics..
Not to mention the fact that he’s recently been texting his ex lately almost every day. He never says anything bad but idk why he suddenly wants to talk to her and now he won’t delete her old nudes. AND he just told me about a week ago that he’s had her contact in his phone as a guys name for the past 7 months bc he wanted me to think he deleted her number. It’s back to her name now but wtf.. he says he hadn’t talked to her “in months” before he told me about how he changed her contact back to her name and started talking to her again. I have a reason to be pissed right? Am I over exaggerating?
EDIT: The pics are old, from when he was dating his ex, they’re not new
EDIT 2: He deleted the app and apologized. He said he hadn’t looked at those in a long time (before we were dating) and he said that the only reason he was hesitant about deleting him is because I “was pushy and demanding” about it.
Achieve your health goals from period to parenting.