How would you handle it?

When my husband and I first got together, I was the “lovey dovey” one and he was the “hard ass”. 7 years later, the rules are reversed! I picked up the hard ass attitude and he’s always affectionate!! I want to go back to the way I use to because honestly who wouldn’t, right?🤷🏻‍♀️

I’ve tried to change in some ways, but I’m just not picking up the mojo I had years ago😫 And I LOVE my husband, this just sucks that I can’t open up anymore!! How would you get yourself to that point?