I have a crazy MIL!!

My MIL is always driving me crazy or my husband crazy at any given moment!! A few weeks ago we got in a HUGE fight over text.

Basically she was complaining about my husband being a bad influence on his younger brothers for not discouraging them from vaping 🙄 Not that I support it, and I've told them not to, but it's not like we are their parents, right?

Anyway, I made the mistake of saying something like, "yeah he's been annoying me too lately because he hasn't been taking the trash out and I have to remind him. My dad mentioned he hasn't been helping out enough around the house with the new baby." OMG she went insane. She started going off about how I am so lazy, and he shouldn't have to do a thing around the house because I stay at home while he works. She said, "There is no reason you should ever not have a hot meal ready for him when he comes home from work!" Mind you at the time my baby was only a little over a month old and I'm a FTM. She said a lot of other vicious stuff that I don't want to go into detail about. I felt bad that I talked about my husband to her, so I told him and apologized, but thankfully he put her in her place. She also always holds it against us that they let us live with them for a few months when we first moved to a new state and helped us financially a couple times when we first got married and he suddenly lost his job.

NOW she is mad at my husband for the craziest thing. Last night his brothers told him that his mom stalks him every single day and checks what he posts and likes on Facebook using an account under his dad's name that appears to have no activity (so my husband assumed no one used it). My husband blocked the account because he thought it was intrusive that she is following him secretly on social media, although it wouldn't bother him if she was friends with him openly with her own account... She texted him first thing this morning to ask him if he deleted his Facebook account, and then claimed she doesn't stalk him... How else would she know that he blocked her that quickly? UGH!!! Anyway, apparently she is mad at him even though he told her he just did it because she was doing it secretly and to see how fast she would notice but he would gladly accept her friend request if she made her own account...

Anyone else have very intrusive in laws with no boundaries?