so a day or two ago I found out my great grandmother passed away. I'm sad obviously but I'm dealing. well as per a family tradition we are waiting till late spring/early summer and spreading her ashes in Garden of the goods in Colorado. my mother, aunt, father and little sister are all going. I will be going with my son and hopefully my husband and but the problem is he does t think he's going to go. he just keeps saying "I wish everyone would plan better instead of just say what's going on" to which I say it is being planned and he says "yeah for you" I don't understand. I know he cares about my feelings but at the same time I feel like he doesn't. he doesn't deal with death well but he never met my great grandmother. and more than likely this will also be when we have our family reunion so of course I want him there but he just doesn't seem to want to talk about it. I've tried and instead I feel like I'm bothering him. I just don't know what to do.