Relationship book recommendations

I'm looking for a good book for my SO and I to both read. He really doesn't want to go to a counselor and I'm feeling like we have our hands tied.

Our main issue is we feel we cannot communicate the way we are trying to communicate with each other. We're always arguing. Another thing is I have depression and he wants to know how to help me and understand it better. He's very closed off when it comes to emotions and talking about feelings and I'm extremely opposite. Like extremely. There HAS to be something we can do. We really don't want to break up. We genuinely love each other.

Please send help. Our three year anniversary is right around the corner and we're constantly talking about our future yet we're fighting every day. It's so confusing.