I just want to start by saying that I know many, many women have far worse experiences than I do with this and for that I’m deeply sorry and wish the best for you but I just wanted to get some support and maybe even tips from other women and hope you won’t bad mouth me for sharing my story even though it may not be as complicated as yours. TIA ❤️

So about me, I’m 20 years old, have been married for 1.5 years, with my husband for 3.5 years, financially stable, home owner, etc. so please don’t discourage me from trying to conscience because I’m young. For some people it’s great to wait but for us we’d like to have our children young and stop at a certain point.

We got pregnant by accident soon after we met while I was using a merina IUD. It had gotten knocked out of place and I ended up pregnant. The IUD has to be removed and the pregnancy would be ended from the normal imbalance and basically I was told I would not carry to term and I didn’t. About 2 weeks after the removal I miscarried. Now we had only been together about 6 months at this point, mind you this is a guy who confessed his love for me on our first date so we did not get married or continue the relationship due to a pregnancy or even the grief of losing one. So after losing a baby we tried ever since to get pregnant and it finally happened about 2 years later on our honeymoon to be exact. We have an almost completely healthy about to be 7 month old son. (He has a simple cyst on his kidney, common in men but not so much in babies, not sure of the cause but they are monitoring it through ultra sound and it has been shrinking at a good rate so they are predicting it will just go away and there doesn’t seem to be any threat). He was induced early to make sure the cyst was nothing to worry about and was born small at 5lbs 6oz but he is growing and hitting milestones perfectly and in the 98th percentile.

So since the birth of our son, once my stitches healed of course we have been sort of trying to conceive. We both come from large families, are stable enough for me to be a stay at home mom, and we want babies ❤️ now we haven’t been trying excessively but I’ve gone on absolutely no contretemps emotion in the past 7 months and we’ve been tracking my ovulation. My point is I’m 20 years old, people younger than me had no trouble getting pregnant my first took 2 years and I’m just worried about how long the next one will take and I’ve never considered that we may have fertility issues but we might? I’m just wondering if any ladies have any suggestions for me, should I talk to a doctor? Does this sound like fertility issues? I feel like I should be more fertile. Again I know some ladies have been trying for a very long time and have had no luck I’m just pondering the possibility that it may be harder for me to get pregnant than I thought and am wondering why? Thank you and good luck to anyone trying, I wish you the best!