*updated* what would you do if you were 7 weeks pregnant and your SO wanted to leave for 3 months with his brother ?

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He is leaving to have a *possible* job (he hasn’t applied for a single one around here) and it is not promised once so ever. He said to save money for his “motorcycle” and to “smoke as much weed as I want” both activities with his brother. At the same time he is telling me not to get a job. Ps I do not have an issue with his smoking , it’s the fact of it all together .

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Sounds like you already have a child

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I’d be like okay cool if those are your priorities in life, go for those three months but don’t bother coming back

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It’s not even about the job. Instead of saying saving money for when the baby gets here and for you he’s saying for a motorcycle and weed like wtf 🤦🏻‍♀️ how old is this dude. Time to get his shit together.

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Hun he’s going to be with a woman not his brother

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I'd say be angry but, not even worth the time.

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If it were for a definite job, and he was sending you any money he didn't need to survive, then I'd say yes, support him. For a maybe job and so he can spend it on weed and a motorcycle- HELL NO. I'd get a job while your pregnancy is still early on and start saving- this guy sounds like a deadbeat, and like he'll be no help whatsoever. Tell him he can go, if he never wants to come back! With an attitude like that he's probably going to do worse than what he's even admitting to. I'm sorry, but girl you can't let this happen to you!

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Was this pregnancy planned?? He sounds like he’s young and just wants to have fun.

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where is he going that he would need to be gone for 3 months??!!! Fuck that noise!

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If he said he wanted to save money for the baby I would support him.
But the reasons he gave u sounds like you’re about to have a child with a 17yr old BOY

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Seriously? This guy sounds like my 16 year old brother! Ugh, you need to tell them that he’s actually extremely childish and that he needs to get his head out of this ass!

updated what would you do if you were 7 weeks pregnant and your SO wanted to leave for 3 months with his brother ?

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