tired of going through the same bs over n over

i'm sorry i need to vent..i'm just soo tired of hoping my husband will change. I hate the fact that i know that he rathers do other stuff than to spend time with me, i dont ask for him to be with me the whole day, we both work, we get home around 6 or him later..if we even talk to each other about our days it's a miracle, and i hate it because sometimes i try to talk to him about my day and he's just on his phone and wont even ask me anything..soo i dony even bother anymore..so when he gets home it's the same routine every single dam day a kiss and he's off to his stuff yeah ok i understand i cant have him 24/7 with him but i would only like 30 minutes at least, most of the time he's fixing his car or playing xbox..yeah but when he wants yo have sex he's a total different person, like come on why only when you want to have sex..all different stuff run through my mind..i'vr tried talking to him but only the first day or so stuff are different then they go back to the same old stuff, and im justi tired of it..i wake much earlier than him to go to work so i go to bed earlier to and when im really tired i just want to go to sleep but to no he wants to have sex if i dont want to he gets mad.likre i have to force my self to have sex just for him not to get mad, but when i ask for a few minues off his time and i get mad he doesnt do anything to fix it. i dont know what to do anymore..