I'm so up and down about it. I've read some people have done it and they're OK, then others do it and it wasn't a good experience for them. example, miscarriage. My biggest fear is miscarriage. I still have sex, I just don't orgasm or if I'm close I freak out and stop before I get that urge. This is my first baby and I want it to be OK. I'm.17 weeks and my urges are getting bad but I sustain myself from masturbating and orgasms. What are your guys thoughts.