Depressed

When I miscarried the first time back in Oct my husband was so very supportive. He kept telling me it wasn’t my fault and that we can try again. He was the one to talk to the doctor about when it was okay to try again. It was so sweet. We did try again and was blessed with a bfp in Dec, however I ended up miscarrying again a week later. This time there were no sweet words just a silent hug. He doesn’t say anything but it is obvious that he blames me especially since he no longer wants to be intimate with me. He rarely even kisses me unless I steal a kiss. It is killing me inside and I don’t know what to do.