Baby Names

So today I found out this girl I know is using the girls name my hubby and I chose. Not a big deal to most but we used to be friends and she has known since I was 12-13 I wanted to use it. She isnt just taking the first name either but the middle name as well. So now we have to go through and pick a completely new name as we cant even pretend we dont know her as we have way too many mutual friends to do so. I am a bit frustrated by the entire situation as the name was perfect and avoided upsetting either family in any way by favoring the other. I know I know it seems stupid but I really wish she was having a boy so she couldnt do this whole name stealing thing because she has zero ideas about any boy names I like. I have always wanted a little girl so I only ever picked out a girls name.