Hi ladies.. so I’m about 27 weeks rn and the hormones are high .. I had an argument with my husband and my dad made it all worse by butting in with irrelevant things. Anyways.. I stayed up late crying .. and my husbands phone buzzed. I know if he was awake I’d ask to see who or what was sent and he’d show me. So I looked at what it was .. and it was a girl thrusting her vagina with a dildo while moaning 💔

I’ve seen this girls name on his phone more than once or twice.. but thought nothing of it. I confronted him about it and he laughed said it was nothing .. and I always knew something was up.. I always asked him .. and he never admits to anything.. even though I know he interacts with other women on a sexual basis.

He said it was nothing and she always just send random sexual stuff.. I asked him why he wouldn’t tell me because I tell him about everything that happens with me. Even flirting.. he gets upset at me over that stuff.. I don’t see why he can’t see how I must feel .. he hasn’t comforted me at all. I’ve been crying for the past 16 hours on and off and he doesn’t care.

He threw a fit after I kept asking him why he never told me.. my son who’s 19mo was sleeping and woke up because he was throwing stuff everywhere and threatening to strangle me because I apparently drive him crazy .. he punched a hole in our rental home.. then tried to pack his stuff and leave . My son was freaking out so I stopped him and tried to diffuse the situation and it worked.

He still hasn’t apologised and is going about his day as if nothing happened.. I feel like I’ve been cheated on because I’d never do anything like that to him.. we have another baby on the way .. is this cheating? What should I do? My family is unsupportive and so is his ..

Thank you.