This past October I MC'ed baby #9. (Planned pregnancy) My MIL said to me point blank "It's for the best, you don't need to have another baby. You can't afford it, and it will stress out my son." Now mind you we may not be millionaires, but we're not struggling by any means! I also have to brag on my husband! He makes the best Daddy anyone could ever ask for. To our 18 month old daughter and takes very good care of me. Now we just found out I'm pregnant again with #10. I feel because she is grandma she should be apart of the pregnancy, but on the other hand it stresses me out, wondering what she's going to say next. Also I feel if she doesn't want to be a grandma, why should I even bother including her? None of her other kids have anything to do with her.