No one cares about a second pregnancy

I'm sadly coming to realize this but I don't want to believe it at the same time. For my first, there were lots of hugs, offers to babysit and "congratulations!! I'm so happy for you guys!" now all I get is "again?!" Half the time no one even congratulates us. Is this normal or am I just around crappy women? I'm not looking for gifts..hell I never even had a baby shower because I'm not a gift grabby person. But I don't think it matters if it's the first or sixth baby.. all babies are special and every pregnancy should be exciting. Maybe it's the hormones but I'm kinda bummed about it