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ok me and my fiance have been together for over 2 years and oyr relationship has changed drastically he uesd to never yell at me now when we fight wich is all day everyday he yells and he knows about my past abusive relationship and i know he ain't abusive at all but he kinda scares mane hate don't listen to me and its suddenly ask about him and one more thing we are addicts so could that be a problem
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it's not about what he used to be. his addiction. his attitude. him him him. 
it's about YOU!!!!! if u struggle with addiction, leave for YOU. get YOURSELF clean. figure out what YOU want. fight to get clean for YOU. so that YOU can enjoy the rest of YOUR life. so that YOU can do soemthing great with YOUR life. So that YOU can meet someone who is clean who will love and motivate you.... its so about YOU and you don't even realize it. NOTHING will change until you remove yourself from the situation and be real with yourself. I come from a family of addicts. My closest cousin is now clean from meth for 3 years now. married and has a great job. but she had to get sick of herself and sick of being around it. she's no better than you. get out of there. get help get clean.  fight!!!! then enjoy life..... its too short. 
goodluck 😘

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Yes. Being an addict is most (HIGHLY) likely the problem here.
Drugs impair your frontal lobe functions aka impulses, judgement, social and sexual behavior, problem solving, memory, spontaneity and many more.
Whatever you're both on, nothing anyone says will change the behaviour or path until you are each ready to really chamge- so I know better than to lecture.
I will however wish you safety and recovery.

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