My boyfriend and I have been together less than a year, but our relationship has been very intense.

I was told I was infertile.

Long story short, I’m now pregnant with our first baby.

It was a huge surprise but we’re both very happy.

The problem is, he just doesn’t seem to understand and can get very angry.

When he’s angry, he can be so so horrible, he’s said some disgusting things to me and some unforgivable things about our unborn baby.

He’s not acting like the person I fell in love with, I know what he does is emotionally abuse me but now I’m pregnant and he should be there but he said today, “I’m not coming to the scans because I don’t want to see your f****** face” and I asked how he would see the child if he didn’t want to see “my f****** face” and he said hopefully he won’t have to see me!

I just don’t know what to do anymore.

I only ever wanted us to be a family.

I wanted to try family mediation/ therapy but now he’s refusing to do that.

I can’t force him to change so do I just not talk to him?

He seems to have blocked my number too so if anything does go wrong (I hope it doesn’t) then I can’t even contact him...

We’re having a child but it seems like I’m already caring for one.