Just told friends and family and now..

I woke up this morning to blood... I’m 10 weeks and 3 days... this would be my second miscarriage... I have my first dr appointment today at 10.. my mom wants me to go to the ER to see if my cervix is open or closed.. but I’m so depressed right now I just want to do this at home... any tips from moms who have had multiple miscarriages? What would you do?