Boyfriend throws a fit and argues with me when I don't want to have sex.

This might be long but I just need to vent ladies. So, My boyfriend is always such a horny person. He literally wants to have sex every time we see each other and the only time we don't have sex is when I'm on my period! It's not that I don't want to, it's because I'm tired! I work 11 hour shifts everyday and I get very tired when I come home from work. Not only that, but on New Years eve I was very sick, I had the flu and stayed home and fell asleep early and the way I woke up was him trying to feel up on me! I couldn't breathe from a stuffed nose, coughing and sneezing and a fever and he was still trying to have sex. I told him no because I was sick and he got all mad and scooted away from me on the bed. Last night, we were laying down after a very long day, his car broke down, I was late to work because I had to pick him up, and after work I even went to get his car to take it to his house, and I even made a payment for him using my money because he was late on it and they were gunna charge him more. After everything, we were laying down and again he's trying to touch me and kiss me and I told him babe not now I'm really tired we had a long day. Well he literally threw a fit! He told me " Ugh you act like I'm not your boyfriend and always try to push me away!" So I said " No it's just im tired! I had a long day at work and ontop of that we had a long day with the car and I need sleep." And this is what he told me. " Fuck sleep!! You don't need it! You always say your tired why can't you satisfy me for once!" This is when I lost it, because we've been together for 4 years, and I always satisfy him whenever he wants even tho I might not want to. And I even payed his damn bill! Ugh ladies I don't know what to do, I need advice on how to tell him I'm serious that we don't always have to have sex every time we see Eachother. I believe that it's also about Spending time together and feeling the love without sex. When I back myself up he says I'm stupid and everyone would agree with him and not me. I really feel like I'm losing it after I tell him so many times because we always argue about this. What do I do 😔