Why does he have to do that?

Jessica

I feel like my husband isn't excited or looking forward to this baby. :( He showed excitement in the beginning when I told him I wanted to keep it (it was unplanned and my pills failed, kinda freaked us out at first and left the ultimate decision up to me). and then he showed excitement when I told him it was a boy as he wanted one so bad. But now I don't really feel like he's looking forward to it anymore as we hit new milestones. :( When I ask him he's just like "ehh." and when I told him the baby might be able to hear outside the womb the first thing he decided would be a great thing to say was "fuck you" or something like that. it was in a joking way but still. way to ruin that milestone. Then the next day he did it again calling him a bastard in a joking way. Last night I finally felt the baby move and tell him. He asks if it felt like a turd. I laughed and said no, then said it should have because he's a little turd. Like really? Another milestone ruined. :( I rolled over and cried and he passed back out as it happened while we were in bed. I'm about ready to just not tell him when anything else happens as I don't want him ruining other moments. He's a great guy, I just think he's not sure how to handle this so does it in a sarcastic way but it makes me feel like he's not looking forward to having a baby and ruins the moment.