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My boyfriend & I are on a break due to me showing up to his friends house because he lied and said he was going to be with his mother. He says that he needs space because I acted "crazy" and that he needs time to get over it. In my head I'm just like you lied what do you need space for ? Am I wrong ?

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I would just end it, rather than letting him call a break. You don’t trust him, he doesn’t give you a reason to. If you guys get back together, I worry that you’ll fall into a pattern of acting this way because he’s shady and he’ll continue to call your crazy and make you feel that you’re hard to love because you don’t trust him. That isn’t fair to you, it’s very damaging to your self esteem.

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give him alllll the space he wants, then fill the space with a grown man

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He's turning it on you. He's a manipulating prick... time to move  on... or the cycle will repeat. You never want to feel insecure and crazy enough to have to do that again

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The lies will only get worse, get out while you can.....

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Hell no you aren’t wrong. He lied about where he was (which you don’t typically do unless you’re doing something sneaky) and now he’s trying to distract from that by twisting it on you.

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He’s obviously not mature enough to see where he is wrong. I would end it and move on.
If he respected you or your relationship he would’ve honest from day 1 about everything.

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Just dump him. He could have said "I just want some guy time with the boys", but he chose to lie instead. So who knows what else he will lie about? You weren't crazy, he was the one who was wrong.

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He was definitely in the wrong- but I wouldn’t have rocked up at someone else’s house 🤷🏻‍♀️🤔

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