Should I do it??

Question

My boyfriend and I have been having sex since September and I still have yet to give him a BJ. I’m nervous about it because he’s the only guy I’ve ever been with, and if I’m being completely honest, I have a really bad gag reflex. 😂 please give me pointers if you say yes.

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Don't worry about your gag reflex. If something happens, it happens. If he's a dick about it, that guy isn't worth it AT ALL. It's not like he's used to shoving a rod down his throat, and if he expects you to be some pornstar, that's his issue. Also, as a side note, DON'T be afraid to not swallow! There's a lot of pressure to not be a spitter, but cum can honestly be downright nasty. I hate the consistency/taste from every man I've been with. To give you some blowjob pointers, you don't have to just bob back and forth! Form a tube with your hands (with plenty of spit), and "glue" the hand to your face by holding it around your mouth. By doing this, you've essentially created an extension of your mouth, and it'll save you from having to go all the way down. Just focus on the entirety of the thing instead of just one or two parts. As a tip, you can put your mouth pretty much all over his groin and it's going to feel really good (so, pay attention to the sack, and area right around the base of his member). Ask him what he wants/enjoys, and do your best to accomodate that (if you want to!). Be up front about your skills and unembarassed by your noviceness. Once again, if he thinks it's weird, he's clearly not prepared for an adult relationship.

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I threw up on my bfs THING he actually thought it was really hot 🤢😒😂

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I say yes only if you feel comfortable. Don’t do it because you feel like you have to. If you’re going to do it. Take it slow. You don’t have to gobble it down your throat the first time. Focus on the head and use your hand for help. The more saliva the better.

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my gag reflex is super sensitive too! i find that breathing through your nose while you do it helps a lot.

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I was super nervous my first time too! I was having sex with my boyfriend looong before I gave him a bj. 
Have confidence in yourself! Try not to use your teeth. Look him in the eyes when you do it. They love that.

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