How could they do that????

I never understood why women allow their SO to check out other women in front of them or even do it together! My sister in law does is, she’ll tell my brother “hey babe look at that girls ass” and it’s everywhere they go. She says she’s confident but ummm I am too. I just feel it’s weird and disrespectful. I would never do that! I get we’re human and we all tend to look every now and then but if I caught my man doing that shit right in front of me I’d be pissed. I would like to think that I’m the only woman he’s looking at. And why do you ask that I bring this up? I’m just curious to know why some women allow it? Help me understand.

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Sa

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i check out other girls with my husband because i like the way other girls look, and I completely trust him, and im comfortable in our marriage.

Me

Melissa • Jan 13, 2018
Same!!

Na

Natalia • Jan 12, 2018
🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

Na

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I always say "omg babe did you look at her butt?!" And point to the girl that looks like she doesn't sleep but squats instead. Personally, I don't think it's checking a girl out like WOW SHE'S HOT! I'm just impressed by an ass. Then I go to the gym and work on mine. My husband doesn't stare at it with lust in his eyes, he always goes "wow that's a lotta work! But yours is scrumptious!" And that's that. I also have implants, so I point out girls with implants and say "those are nice" haha its like shopping ! To each their own✌🏼👌🏼

Sa

Samantha • Jan 12, 2018
🙌🙌 yesssss!!!

Bu

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my husband and I look, I point people out and we argue whether theyre attractive or not "how can you NOT find her attractive?? weirdo" lol. nothing more goes on. we trust eachother and I know he finds me better anyway

Th

The Notorious B.I.N.G • Jan 13, 2018
I do this with my partner too :') he'll say someone isn't attractive and I'm there pointing out why they are. He has a horrible taste in men though, so we agree to disagree on that one

Th

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It's not like he's going over there and sticking his dick in them, we do this and we're comfortable with it. I can appreciate other attractive bodies that don't belong to my partner, just as he can do the same. I'm not in a relationship for his looks (although that is a huge perk), I'm in a relationship because I love him and I love our shared experiences. Looking at another body and appreciating that it looks good isn't a crime. It's cool that you don't agree for your own relationship, but I agree with it for mine and it doesn't lessen my relationship in any way. I love my partner, I also love checking out a decent ass if it goes past

Ma

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me and my so always do that! with guys and girls haha no big deal

J

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we both check other people out. I trust him and he trusts me and fully respect eachother. its nothing that bothers me. buuut...if he is touching or someone is touching him...which he wouldnt do but then we got problems...lol but it helps to just be out front and comfortable with eachother. not all people are comfortable doing this.

Ke

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I’m more like your sister in law. Idk I just appreciate the beauty of the human body. If we all look sometimes why try to hide it. I like that my husband is comfortable enough with me to be open about that kind of stuff. Now that doesn’t mean that we go around grabbing ass or anything but we can go places and agree that someone’s really pretty or I can say stupid things like “ I wish I had her body” without the whole him pretending not to look crap. We both know there’s a lot of options out there but still comforted enough by the fact that we picked each other. Now I don’t think there’s a right or wrong I get where you’re coming from but I like the way we are

🕷

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I point out girls that I think are attractive all the time to my boyfriend when we’re out. He’s very shallow so I normally find more people attractive than he does lol But he also does the same thing to me. We’ll be out and he’ll point to a random guy and ask me if I find him attractive. Most of the time I don’t, but I’ll let him know if I do. My boyfriend is extremely attractive (and I’m not just saying that because he’s mine, I get comments from friends a lot) so I always reassure him and tell him how pretty and handsome he is.

Na

Natalia • Jan 13, 2018
Haha how pretty and handsome he is! I do the same! I always go "but my Viking is the most handsome!"

D�

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I don’t understand it. I’m confident too, but I wouldn’t be okay with my man checking out other women in front of me. I definitely don’t check out other men in front of him. I think that is so distasteful (in my relationship), but to each their own!

Al

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my husband and I do it because I would rather him do it in front of me than behind my back