3rd failed IUI

Well today I found out my 3rd IUI failed. I didnt think I would be this upset. I prepared myself that this wouldn't work. And I feel absolutely broken. I would always see women post about their struggle and how they were feeling and I always thought "I'm not there yet, mentally I am not there yet" and today...today I feel exactly what all these other woman have been feeling. I am beginning to lose hope. My husband suggests we take a break. And my doctor suggest a laparoscopy....guess we will have to decide which way we are going to go...