Ok, so my husband has been a tough nut to crack when it comes to blow jobs. and it was making me feel sort of inadequate. so I made it my New Year's resolution to figure him out and give great BJ's!... I have been watching you tube videos, reading tricks, all the above. and last night i got it! here's what I do. hope this helps anyone who feels like I did... also, any comments? I'm always down to learn more! Start off by teasing - kiss/nibble all around the area (not the penis)

Lick up and down the shaft a couple times (start out slow)

Do YouTube trick (side to side w/ tounge, up and down shaft)

Flick the frenulum with your tounge a few times (this part is super sensitive)

Get it really wet (spit if you have to)

Take head in your mouth, start sucking slowly and at the same time circle the head with your tounge

Do corkscrew motion with your head

Start sucking up and down (gradually increase the pase)

Pretend your hand that's on the base is glued to your mouth, go up and down

Take as much of him in as you can... deep throat

When you need a break give a hand job, from base all the way over the head (pretty quickly) and at the same time use your mouth to French kiss and suck on the skin of balls (sort of really lightly tug with lips over teeth) licking and swirling at the same time