I NEED TO GET OUT

I really need some support right now. I’m in my freshman year of university and choose to live at home since I live fairly close to the school. This is financially beneficial for me. Unfortunately, it has been emotionally unsettling. My mother is constantly on me about the littlest things and refuses to accept that I am maturing and becoming an adult with each day that passes. She yelled at me the other day while I was on a date with my boyfriend of nearly a year demanding I be home and give every detail of where I was and what I was doing even though she knew we were going to be out together. This morning she woke me up by standing at the foot of my bed screaming at me and saying I’m lazy and do nothing at the house when I do chores everyday and I’m on winter break. She keeps yelling and saying the house isn’t a hotel but I have no idea what to do. If I’m home I’m lazy if I’m out it’s a hotel and I’m never home. I don’t get it. I’ve always been the independent type and have had a job since I was able to, got good grades was never problematic. With each screaming fit she has I realize more and more that she seems to not be able to handle my growing independence and tries to stifle it. I could live on campus but I’m not sure how I would afford it which is why I am going to apply to be an RA. if not, should I take our a student loan to cover the cost of on campus housing? I currently don’t have any other loans taken out to pay for my education due to scholarships I’ve received. And does anyone have any advice on surviving now until August?