He lied to me..😔

My boyfriend is in the military. After he joined, our relationship started going downhill. He got deployed to Hawaii, and a little bit after, we found out I was pregnant. I was stupid and told him during an argument, and he told me i HAD to get an abortion. He convinced me it was the right choice, and that he’ll be here for me when I do it and.... I did it😔... He told me I wasn’t allowed to tell anyone, so I have been keeping to myself since November. Now he has broken up with me. I just told his family.. Does this make me a bad person? 😔