VENT🔻 mother in laws and her family🤦🏻‍♀️ 🔻

Sometimes I would go over to my MIL but whenever I go over there, THEY don’t do ANYTHING besides sitting on the couch and watch tv. My SO’s mother expects me to go over there all the time but I don’t want to because I would be stuck doing nothing for awhile. All her 4 kids has a job and she can’t really speak English so it’s super hard to communicate with her. Besides whenever I take him over there, she’ll ALWAYS has something to say about my son like why is there scratch on his face? Or why isn’t he wearing a layer under his onesie? My son gets hot even if he is wrapped in a blanket anyways..so why would I put an extra layer of clothes? On and that’s not the rest she ALWAYS tell me that I’m skinny af and that I need to eat more even though my SO tells her that I eat like a cow. Sorry I just have a high metabolism? 🤷🏻‍♀️ But anyways, I just wanted to vent. I tell my SO this all the time and he understands me but he can’t do anything about it obviously. I mean he’s helped me solve a couple problems with her on what she did to my son since he was born like spraying cologne/perfume on him as a baby and putting a red string on his forehead that just cane out of her mouth. Like gross. Lol🤢