Lack of sex with my partner HELP!?

Question

We have been dating for almost a year and at the beginning of our relationship it was very sexual, we had sex almost everyday. Now it’s about every week, he doesn’t cuddle with me at night, we barely touch/ kiss anymore. Do any of you ladies have any tips? Or things I could try to get my man back to where we were?

Answer

So, your sex life will naturally be up and down. You'll probably never go back to that new relationship horniness and once a day sex. That's a pretty demanding schedule. But it sounds like its not necessarily the sex you miss but the intimacy. Men's drive for intimacy is very affected by stress. So, he carrying around stress? Is there anything you can do to make his life easier? He probably won't want to talk about in detail, but try to get him to open up and offer to take a to-do off his list. Also, as a man ages, testosterone declines and the risk for high blood pressure increases. If he hasn't had a physical lately, encourage him to do so. To rekindle the snuggles, bring up something fun or funny that happened when you were first dating. Plan a date night. Wear a fragrance you wore in the past or something new. Leave him love notes. Do those sweet things people do in a new relationship. Give him random compliments. Say thank you when he does a chore around the house or something he always does for you.

Answer

My husband and I have been struggling with this (a lot of stress and changes in our life) no more snuggles, once a week sex, no more passionate kisses, ect. But I do know if I put in some extra effort on the right night (when he hasn’t had an especially rough/ stressful day at work) I’ll make him a nice dinner then go shower and put on some of his favorite things he likes to see me in and do some favors for him most of the time he is a happier man for a couple days but it may take months to go back to being a reciprocated level of effort to put a little more spark back into your relationship. For us we know it will just take some time and patience.

Lack of sex with my partner HELP!?

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