So last night it was time to go to bed, and hubbz and I were laying down talking per usual. He asked me to scratch his back. Immidiatly, I got all excited.

So then i start sctatching his back with my freshly done stilleto nails. As im scratching, i go "you know what happens when i scratch your back, i ask you to scratch mine."

Being that i just got off AF a couple days ago, im all hot and bothered, ready to go, HE KNOWS I WANT SEX, BAD! So then he starts complaining on how he just wants to have sex and he is tired of four play. He is tired of rubbing me and caressinge before sex. That he would rather jack his dick then initiate sex with me. All because I would reject him if he dont get the juices flowing. Now dont get me wrong, I can have sex with out four play but when it comes to being on my period for 6 days and giving a 2 day gap after that, my body parts were sensitive and i want to feel all the current that goes through my body, as he touches, licks, and rubs me. Especially from 8 or 9 days with out sexual contact.

Im not down for period sex, i dont like it, it feels uncomfortable, and its a metallic mess. Hubby isnt really in to blow jobs so that doesnt happen often. He has been all about pleasing me, ever since we first got together 4 years ago. He knows what to do, how to do it, how much pressure needed where, and he eats the hell out of my lady parts that always ends in an orgasm.

So, when he hit me with the "im tired of the four play" bullshit, my heart felt like it was on fire and a lump formed in my throat. I was mad as hell. After all that prepping i did in the shower!!! Washed my hair, shaved everything on my entire body accept my head and eyebrows, made sure i cleaned my lady parts real good and gave her extra care, lotioned my body double, so the smell of my new bath and body works mousse to oil moisterizer would be potent (it smells so soft and fresh, i bought 6 lol). I dried my hair and sprayed my smell good. I lit a candle and set the mood.

I didnt know what to do, or what to say. All i said was, " I wasnt even talking about sex, i just want a back scratch". He knew damn well what i wanted and what i was fiening for. So i finished scratching his back, and I rolled over to my side, and he to his. We both laid in silence as my feelings were hurt. I got no sex, no four play no nothing. We never have had problems with sex in our relationship, but wow, I guess its too good to be true. Sorry for the long post, yes their are some detail i left out here and there, but i think the rant is long and boring enough.