sex during ovulation

I never want to have sex when I am actually ovulating I know this is terrible because I want to get pregnant and I know that is the only way to but I have ovulation cramps and a soreness in my pelvic area and feel bloated and very unattractive so I have to force myself to have sex and usually can only force myself to do it once. anyone else feel this way and what do you do about it or am I just crazy!?