Keeping TTC a secret and it’s hard

I’m so open with the people i am close with, and i hate keeping secrets. I want to tell my SIL and two best friends so bad, but know it’s best to keepbit between me and my SO (and my mother haha.) it’s also hard because one of my best friends has been TTC with her husband for 2 years and no blessing has come their way yet, and they recently got some bad news about their chances. If i get a bfp before her, telling her is going to break my heart instead of being exciting 😔

who else is keeping their TTC journey private? Why?

Me and my SO just feel it’s a private thing that we would rather not have to answer constant questions about. We would like to do this as stress free as possible, as well as try and enjoy it without outside added pressure.