I thought that I wouldn’t have to think about my baby shower until a month or so before I go for the ultra sound gender results.

My dads wanting to host it at his place BUT he doesn’t want to know the sex of the baby until I give birth. The whole point of the baby shower was so that we could reveal the gender but how can I do it without him finding out. He’s wanting to walk away as we do it. I was planning on having a cake. But he would notice. He really wants it to stay a surprise. So I need help with other ideas for our gender reveal!! So stuck!! Something thats easy to clean up with no trace. I’m a first time mummy I have no bloody clue!