Miscarriage December 2017

Davita

Ok, here is my back story. My husband and I weren’t trying to get pregnant but we weren’t preventing it either. Come thanksgiving 2017 I got sick thought it was food poisoning. Husband is like well I’m not sick, are you pregnant? I took a test that Sunday and a vvfl popped up positive! Excited for sure, it’d be our 3rd blessing. Unfortunately (6wk 4 days) December 14 started spotting light pink, went to ER said it could be normal spotting . HCG level 264. Ultrasound couldn’t find a HB just a sac (could be too early to tell) December 16 passed the baby (sac).

The following week Dec 20 blood drawn for lowering HCG level it was a 12 I stopped bleeding that day too. Dr. Said come back next week to test again Dec 27 HCG 0.

My husband said no more, he was getting fixed after the 1st of the year he couldn’t handle me going through this again. In my mind miscarriage happens, it could be many different reasons why I have miscarried. February 2015 miscarriage, pregnant again March 2015 I was 10 wks but baby stopped growing 6-7wks, missed miscarriage June 4, 2015, didn’t get pregnant again till January 2016 beautiful baby boy, who is now 15months. Then miscarried December 16, 2017.

I talked with my husband and said I want another baby and if we can actively try till March 2018 and if we do or don’t get pregnant, he can get fixed because we are both 37 and it’s time to start focusing on what we do have our 2 blessings now (a 6 yr old and a 15 month old), hopefully 3 but it’s in Gods hands. My husband agreed 😊

Ok, sorry so long. My Dr. Said I can resume normal baby making as soon as I stop bleeding, which we have. It’s been 4 weeks since I’ve stopped bleeding. I don’t have pregnancy tests at the moment BUT I do have 1 ovulation test and I was curious so I took the opk test and it’s positive today. So that can mean I’m possibly pregnant OR possibly ovulating...oh and my cervix is high and soft. Im feeling fatigued, mild cramps off and on for the past week.

I plan on getting a regular hpt soon. And I’ll post in the comments with updates.

I’m a little excited but I do know I need to get a regular hpt done. (I know you can have a surge of LH before your period also)

What are your thoughts for fun? Pregnant? LH surge?

***Update***

Took a hpt FR 1/17/2018 Neg

Took a hpt FR 1/23/2018 Neg

Took a hpt FR quick response 1/28/2018 Neg

Still haven’t Started my period. 2ww currently will end 1/31/2018.

**Update **

Aunt flow showed 1/30/2018 so it was a LH surge. Fingers crossed for next month, Baby dust all!