I don’t know where to begin.

So let’s start off by saying I’m a submissive through and through. And I’m not into super kinky stuff but I do like to be spanked and have my hair pulled and even a little bit of choking. I recently got a boyfriend who I thought was compatible with that. He always wants to spank me which always turned me on. On Monday though we were going back and forth about what we wanted to do to eachother the next time we hung out. He told me he wanted to role play. Me being a teacher and him being a student. I said I was fine with that and afterwards he said “are you going to spank me”. And that kind of threw me for a loop. This guy is very traditionally masculine and aggressive and I wasn’t expecting that from him. And I don’t mind trying it so I said I’d try but I’m not a very dominant person so I don’t know how well it would work out. I’d probably be afraid I was going to hurt him. And then he asked me to naked wrestle with him. I don’t know if he wants play or real wrestling but I think he wants me to win. I don’t know how to be a more dominant person because I wanna give it a try. I’m very experimental and pretty much willing to try everything. Does anyone have any advice for anything I mentioned. And sorry if this didn’t make sense because I’m writing things off the top of my head and I’m kind of scatter brained right now.