My husband says that knowing when I'm ovulating adds extra pressure on him to "perform" but he says that he still wants to know. Should I tell him or keep it to myself???

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My husband already knows because he's on the Glow app as well. Sometimes I'll get a text from him saying "we gotta have sex tomorrow, you're ovulating!" Haha.

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I've never told my husband, only thatI want a baby and then just BD'ed like crazy lol. I get enough anxiety for the both of us! 😂

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My husband doesn’t like the pressure. I told him the first month and he froze.

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I am having the same problem. One of my friends suggested that instead of telling him on the actual day of ovulation, to instead say, “Hey, I coming up to my fertile window next week” or something to that effect.  But truthfully I’m afraid to say anything now as it seems to be a romance killer 🤔💔😬 not sure where the happy medium is! ✨💞baby dust to you!

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This is our first month TTC and the first couple of times during my fertile week my husband was excited and it didn’t phase him at all. But then he knew Tuesday and Wednesday were the most important days and the pressure got to him. I felt bad so next month, I will keep it to my self!

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I voted keep it to yourself but if he’s not in the mood tell him!!

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Mine gets excited. Maybe tell him after the BD. Lol

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I suggest you can tell him after you've bd & ovulated that way he doesn't feel pressure to "perform" but still knows.

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My husband said the exact same thing.  I don’t tell him anymore, but did say if I was wearing lingerie then it was time.  A little less pressure and fun for both of us.  Good luck!

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I don’t tell my husband otherwise the pressure gets to him and he will not have sex with me. He refuses to be pressured or put on a schedule. Thankfully he’s down for the cause whenever and wherever, so I don’t really have to tell him when I’m ovulating. 😅

My husband says that knowing when I'm ovulating adds extra pressure on him to "perform" but he says that he still wants to know. Should I tell him or keep it to myself???

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