I have a friend who's 6 weeks pregnant, she took herself off her bc and tried for this pregnancy, got pregnant that same month of coming off bc. Now the problem: baby daddy was in jail for the 1st year of life of their son who will be 2 soon. ok. now he's out.. and they tried for bby#2 and Bam! prego. but since her pregnancy hes been wanting to go out, get drunk and hang with his friends. Babydaddy has a job but he wants to go out now.. so her fear of being alone again now with 2 babies has her considering abortion.. and she makes the apt then cancels. make another then cancels. so ... my question to you ladies.... what type of advice would u give her... keep it or abortion? UPDATE: she got the abortion. after I told her she would never regret having another baby, she would regret getting an abortion. she text me with " im going thru with it, sorry if ur mad but that's my choice ," ... then she added that she's already struggling with 1 kid and money... and I really didn't know how to respond to that.. but it's done. and I made my choice to not make her God mother to my children, we ALL struggle. and if u can give up that easy then we clearly don't understand eachother.