The Ultimate Betrayal

I finally was able to introduce my boyfriend of over 3 years to my out of state best friend when she moved back. I was thrilled and excited to introduce the two people I love and value to each other. The introduction went great!

My best friend is a lesbian. . . but all of a sudden she started having an interest in men. I guess she's bisexual now. But she still claims the label of lesbian.

She told me about her encounters with her male hookups, because that's what best friends do. Surprise! She ended up pregnant.

I'm excited for her. Holding her hand through the whole ordeal. Reassuring her everything will be ok and that she'll always have me to help her. Because that's what best friends do.

Then my boyfriend kept asking me if I heard from my bff and how is she doing. Nothing too alarming. Then I told him she's pregnant by a one night stand. He wanted to know if she told the father.

Come to find out my bf and bff were messaging each other without me knowing. Very flirtatious texts that led to them meeting up and hooking up. She may be having his baby. The two people I trusted the most betrayed me the hardest. Funny how she turned from lesbian to straight for a night with the guy she told me was no good. This hurts. I'm now single with no best friend to talk to about it. It hurts that I had to cut them both off because I never imagined the two closest people to me that claimed they loved me would do something so deceitful. I never felt so alone and so betrayed than I do now.

Just needed to get this out.

P.S. Thank you everyone for the encouraging words. It still hurts. I'm trying my best to not think about it. I'm just still in disbelief and trying not to spend my nights crying over it. The crazy part is I'm more hurt that she would do this to me. Yes, I loved him and wanted a life with him, but she was like family to me. They both suck and even though it was just fun for them and they don't want to be in a relationship (according to them) they deserve each other. Two selfish backstabbers. I guess this is my year to cut off people who are no good for me. 😔