So I lost my virginity abt 5 months ago to this one guy. And his Penis was about 4-5 inches. Obviously it didn’t stretch me out too much, but he could still fit it all inside if me. And for 3 months I hadn’t done anything with another guy or to myself. Now, I’m with a new male and his penis is abt 8 inches. We both have tried everything but he can’t fit his penis inside my vagina. He’s tried once but it reallyyyy hurt me. I told him to stop bc I could tell it was tearing me apart because 1. I was way to tight 2. I wasn’t wet enough. I always tell

Him to not put it in all the way and he never does but just the ridges of my lady parts hurt like fire when he is going to town. He has been fingering me to the point where I cum. And his fingers are decently sized too, they aren’t skinny, they are kinda fat and muscular and very long, he usually uses 2 fingers which is even wider than his penis. And he still wasn’t able to fit his penis in. I am always very relaxed with the procedure. But for some reason it just won’t go in! Are there any tips y’all could give me on how to loosen up? And I really don’t like fingering my self I haven’t ever done that and it just scares me to stick my own fingers in me. And there’s no way we could get possibly get lube. Please comment, I want to let him be pleasured and happy with the sexual part of our relationship.