We are welcoming baby # 4. I did have showers eith my other 3 but the last one was a little awkward. My sister, who I had recently started a relationship with, planned it and then switched days because she had plans she forgot about to go out drinking with her friends. Once she changed it she tried to change it again because she wanted to got out with friends and I told her I didn't want to because people already cancelled when we switched the date the first time. She didn't come to the shower and was a little distamt for a while. Anyway I do still want a baby shower even though it's my 4th kid. Is that selfish of me? My step mom was kinda weird when I said it and even said to me that this was my 4th kid. What do you guys think? Did anyone else have showers when it was their 4th Baby?