Completely heart broken ***update***

He slept with her several times ...

Ugg... I don’t even know how to start this... so I found a message on my husband’s phone... “hey babe, how’s your evening going?”

Needless to say he admitted to allowing a girl at work to flirt with him ... he says it’s nothing, that nothing has become physical, that he just liked the attention...

Of course things at home haven’t been amazing... we have a 15 yr old, a 4 yr old and a 17 mo old... he works 55 hours a week, and I work outside the home as well.

I’m just lost and don’t know what to do or what to believe... he says he wants to work on our relationship and he doesn’t want to lose his family