So my bf and I scheduled a vacation...

late last year for this week...we leave in a little bit and come back in a couple of days, nothing long, just a short break from working so much. When he was booking everything I wasn't pregnant. However, after it was all booked and everything was set, we found out I am pregnant. I don't have my first appointment until Thursday, so I can only guess I am about 9w3d today. My problem is....he never told me what he planned for me/us while we're away and I think he may have booked me a massage for this afternoon..he had asked when planning things if I like massages and then yesterday told me I have something to do this afternoon after we arrive....I've heard you're supposed to avoid any massage until after your first trimester...I have every intention of telling them I'm pregnant, but I feel like they'll refuse the massage (which I'm worried isn't safe anyway!) and then all the money he spent is wasted :( it's making me feel so terrible!!! (also, unrelated, but pretty sure he's going to propose, as well...he pretty much spelled it out telling me things he probably shouldn't have! -_\ why are guys so stupid LOL)