So my DF and I have been TTC for 4 months now. I noticed our neighbor is pregnant a few weeks ago. Then the other day I look out the window, and she's smoking a cigarette with her BF and friend 😳😱😠😡😭 So I told my fiancé because it was super upsetting to me, here we are trying for a baby and she's over there not giving a shit she's causing harm to her baby? And her BF was letting her? My fiancé calmed me down, but then I went to work and took this pregnant girl's order, and she happened to know my manager, and I had to listen to her tell my manager how annoying it was to feel something move inside you and basically how it was a huge inconvenience for her routine.

I've literally been unable to get it off my mind. Here I am afraid to do sit-ups or lay on my stomach after ovulation in case there's anything trying to implant, and these girls are smoking while pregnant and taking it for granted?? 😢