Starting to feel really disheartened - any advice? Or things ‘to do’

Hey ladies, I’m really starting to worry & feel like I’m totally losing hope... my partner and I have been TTC for 9 - 10 months now ( maybe even longer ), still no BFP. I’m doing everything in my will power to ensure I’m ‘doing’ everything I can to help I.e taking vitamins, ovulation tests, making sure we leave it every other day to do the deed all round the fertile window, trying to have fun / relax not adding pressure to the situation ... but still no joy 😪

Has anyone got some good advice that worked for them to help in any way. I feel like I’m failing him as a partner because we both so desperately want to start a family we’ve done everything the right way getting our lives in order etc, this is the missing piece but every month I see the disappointment in his eyes when I have to break the news about AF. Within the last 48 hours 4 babies have been born within the family / close friends / 1 announcement, which naturally makes it harder to hide the upset.

So please if anyone has any info that help id be so grateful for our time. Thank you 🙏🏻💔 xx