You know I’m all for self growth and taking responsibility of my actions. I never want to hurt ppl or intend to hurt someone’s feelings. If there’s something I am work on that you see I slack on them let me know. I just can’t STAND someone who victim blames and LOVES playing victim. This guy I started out friends with and then became a little more serious with then stopped because he was playing with my feelings hits me up after I stopped talking to him for about 2 weeks. In the midst of convo he tells me that I’m the blame for “falling back” because he’s never changed. I’m just like well your actions caused me to react which resulted in me falling back. Like how do ppl not see their own faults in situations? When will “little grown boys” grow up? Like real men express their feelings and are considerate of what they do so they don’t hurt the person they truly care about