Circumcision, surprise gender birth, pregnancy hormones...

Ka

I’m more angry/upset than I typically would be because of hormones but I’m still ticked off. My husband and I have decided to not find out the gender of our child and if we have a boy we do not plan on getting him circumcised. We have put a lot of thought and talked extensively about both of these things and our reasoning behind them. When people find out, especially close friends and family, they act like you literally just slapped them in the face! “Why would you do that to us! We cant buy anything cute!” “ You’re going to make US wait?!” “I feel bad if you have a son! How could you do that to that poor boy! He’s going to be made fun of in school!” I’m so tired of hearing it and feeling like I need to justify myself!!!