Trying to talk to him.

Hello ladies !

Here’s a situation I have been dealing with for a while.

My handsome SO and I have been dating for a while& we will be moving to Florida. He has a 4 year old son that I adore. And I can’t wait for our adventures together.

Well I found out I was pregnant in December 2 out of 4 tests said I was pregnant. We where excited to add a littler person to our family. Well I went to the doctor and it took forever to get my results back. The blood work came out negative. And they called me to tell me the results. I’m ok with this because of the move and everything going on. Well my SO mother thinks I faked the tests to move out to Florida. I mean she is very rude and nasty. Sticking her nose where it doesn’t need to be stuck. She continues to tell him horrible things like how I have medical debt. Come on everyone omhas medical debt.. she’s trying to get between him and I , and it’s really upsetting. First finding our the news that we aren’t pregnant, then my birthday was a complete dud, works been very stressful, I barely get to see him. Then the constant drama with the Mother ! I feel there is no winning with her. I feel I can’t make him happy. Because he wants us to get along. I respect her and I am never rude to her. She always is to nosy. I am adult 23 to be exact. She’s around 45. She’s acting so childish. I have expressed how I feel about her talking in such a way to my SO, but she doesn’t care. So in hopes to have the tension die down , I went back home the last few days.

My so promised when we started dating that we would never go a Day with out talking. He videochats me just for a few moments. But I still like it. Well it’s been 3 days. It hurts... I know he’s not as busy because he tells me he’s playing his game, well today I asked him to come over to talk about some pressing subjects. That I need to get off my chest. He told me after he does some things at the house ..then he would come before he goes out drinking with friends. So I changed my attitude I showed, cleaned got all dolled up and excited to see him ...just when I think he’s on his way over. He tells me his buddy is picking him up ...3 hours before they are supposed to go to the bar. I’m so upset, so hurt , so frustrated, but all I want to do is talk to him... he’s my person I talk to ... this is all so hard ..

so he then texts me see you tomorrow. And I just sent him a thumbs up .

So tomorrow I will be having my last family dinner that’s been planned for weeks. And it’s a big deal. We will both be going. But he said if his son is sick he can’t go... his mom can watch him.. it’s not like she’s doing anything. So on top of how unsure he is about tomorrow, I’ve sat at home all day.and have done nothing but cry:( I’m so frustrated.

We leave on the first. I just need to tell him how I feel ... and I swear we never get to do that.