#1. A 15 year old should not be with a (almost) 19 year old.

#2. ESPECIALLY if he in fact has a child.

#3. Have you heard of statutory rape?

#4. You shouldn’t have to lie to your parents about your girlfriends age to not feel ashamed and to keep them off your ass about her being so young.🙃 seriously what are your goals/intentions?

I WISH I HAD MORE POWER OVER THIS. 🤬

My mother lets my 15 y/o sister do WHATEVER she pleases and my mother complains to me about it, but won’t take my advice on how to correct her behavior or discipline her. This is including dating a 19 year old who has a newborn with someone else, and lying to this boys parents saying she’s 17. (SHES CALLING HERSELF A STEPMOM.)

How in the world do I go about this? My sister is bullheaded and does whatever she wants either way.

My mom doesn’t make my sister tell her where she’s going,doesn’t go through her phone, doesn’t do anything to figure out what my sister is doing. It’s like she doesn’t care. She acts like she has no control but complains about it constantly.

I have told my mom NUMEROUS times she can take control since she is the mother, and they she needs to be a mother and not a friend, and she replies that she “picks her battles” and “doesn’t want the extra stress.”

Me and my older sister were raised by my father, we were respectful and responsible. We were disciplined by phones being taken and being grounded for two weeks at a time (more or less depending on the actions.) Our phones were also checked on a regular basis. I complained at the time, but now that I’m an adult with my own child, I understand why he raised us that way.

My 15 and 13 year old sisters are the first children my mom had actually raised on her own and she’s failing horribly. She’s let things go and dealt with their come backs, bad attitude, disrespectfulness, and everything for far too long. She complains about it but won’t try to correct her actions. She also now has a 4 y/o who’s following in the older girls footsteps.

How do I go about helping her when she doesn’t want to be a mother and only wants to be a friend- but CONSTANTLY COMPLAINS about their actions?

If you’ve made it this far, thanks for reading. I’m ranting because everyone else just ignores me like I’m overreacting but they don’t constantly hear her complain daily about her kids.

Thanks, and if you have a reply PLEASE give me your opinion.