Are any ladies out there planning to stay at home and not work for at least the first year after their baby is born? My husband and I are fortunate enough to be in a position that I could do this without putting any significant financial strain on us, and we are considering this option especially since my current wage would barely just cover the cost of childcare. I don't have any friends or family members that have done this and I feel like when I mention this idea to some of them they act like this is lazy and a very unique, old fashioned choice. I guess I'm just trying to see if there are other women in this situation and how common it is in your social circles for women (or men) to stay at home with their baby for the first year or longer after baby is born.